Position of husband in diverse culture
In
contemporary western culture, the rights of wife and husband have been made
equal; although in regard to husbands leaving their families, the civil
marriage generally forces them to provide alimony for his former spouse even
after separation and also after a divorce; this law, however, typically only
applies to women as well in the case of a wealthier wife separating herself
from a less wealthy man/woman.
The
status of marriage allows the husband and his spouse to speak on each other’s
behalf when one is incapacitated (e.g., in a coma); a husband is also
responsible for his wife’s children in states where he is automatically assumed
to be the biological father.
As
an external sign to show his status as a married man, a husband commonly wears
his wedding ring on the ring finger; whether on the left or right hand, depends
on the country’s tradition.
In
Islamic marital relationship, husbands are considered protector of the
household and his wives. The various rights and obligations offer the husband
opportunities denied to his wife or wives, not only in legal and economical
affairs of the family but within the family as well. For other scholars, the
passage “the Prophet (s) said: ‘Do not beat your wife’ and ‘Do not strike your
wife in the face. Progressive Muslims today may also agree on a perfectly equal
relationship.
In
marriages in Hinduism, a Hindu husband traditionally took his wife to his home,
hardly ever to return to her family. As a result, he was expected to provide
for her and to prove his abilities to do so. The marriage before modernity was
a contract between families, similar to the Western marriage. Equal rights for
women and a modern jurisdiction have offered marriage out of love and civil
marriage, different from the traditional arranged marriages. “In Hindu law, the
male members of a joint family, together with their wives, widows, and
children, are entitled to support out of the joint property.”
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