Melancholy and social life of divorce couple
Marriage
is an important event in the life of individual which change their living
standard. Society and families make every possible effort to have married life
but unfortunately some marital relationships break. Divorce is the worst
indicator of person’s success. Divorce is a major loss in the life of couple
and a also disaster which has a massive impact their lives.
Main
causes of divorce are physical or sexual abuse, harmful addictions, or criminal
acts. However causes a spouse to cheat including anger, resentment, having
varied interests, growing apart, or unequal sexual desires. Sometimes, it is
observed that lack of Communication also lead to divorce. It is found in many
studies that communication gap or negative communication can swiftly mutilate
feelings of love and romance. Once couple do not communicate effectively,
marital troubles arise and lead to divorce.
In
criminal cases, divorce demanded to protect the spouse and children. Some people
file divorce cases by preference. The husband, the wife or both are dissatisfied.
One of the partners finds someone outside the marriage they feel might make
them happier.
But
divorce can not make person happy and it will be more discouraging if couples
have children. Where do children find place to groom themselves. How they will
get expert advice to enhance their school performance and solve personal
problems.
Couples
at the time of divorce do not think such problems. They just want to see
present status. They are not fully satisfied with their life. They feel they
are missing something. Though some people find that divorce may enhance their
life but in most cases, couples have problems.
It
is highly recommended that pre marital counseling must be taken before marriage
to avoid such situation. Counselors have certain criteria to judge whether
these two people can lead happy married life. It is better to take good advice
from counselor instead of breaking relationship.
Consequences
of divorce are unpleasant and sometimes life of couple is miserable. Divorced
individuals often experience that friends disappear following the divorce. Most
people who divorce anticipate that they may find a more satiating relationship
in the future. But to explore new passionate relationships after divorce can be
both thrilling and traumatic.
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