False image of ourselves

 Some people have a feeling that they have high ability and intelligence power to beat the world. They consider others as inferior and make every effort to down grade them. Here they do mistakes. Person whether fluent in English or other language, must have deep understanding of concepts in his field and he must take best judgment in different situations. He must have good observation ability. It is said that talented people must not underestimate others whether people from village background or low performer in some areas. People with such aptitude are categorized as an intelligent person. But if such abilities are used to disrepute others, it may loss strength. Person may develop false image of his intelligence.

 

False image of self is the major obstacle in life and career success. One such example is described here to realize those who are proud of having great talent and they degrade others by teasing.  In an upper middle class family, one boy became good performer in class and everybody appreciated his efforts. He joined some reputed institutes. Whenever he came back to home, he always gave his advice to his siblings. Family members were influenced with his approach. It can be said; he was star of the family. Over a decade, he had suffered from bitter experiences but he did not take advice from any body and struggled alone. Ultimately, he settled in other stream. But he had a habit to ignore what others suggest and continued to give his advice to others even though people did not attend him. He sometimes compelled his family members to follow his advice. This habit sometimes irritated family members and they maintained distance with him. He shocked to realize the reaction of close ones.  He had a bad impression of housewife and he sometimes dominated her sister in discussion and overpowered her. His sister behaved in matured way and tried to maintain healthy relations through bearing all his stupid things. In a visit to sister’s home, one day, he challenged his brother in law (sister’s husband) in chess game. His brother in law was very absorbent and quite man. He accepted the challenge and game was started. Slowly, the game reaches to peak and suddenly favored his brother in law. Now the arrogant man got irritated and tried to hide the face here and there. Finally, his brother in law won the game. It was really bad experience of that so called talented man. His image was totally damaged. He was defamed among his blood relations. Still he thinks that he is very intelligent but now no one believes on him and people laugh at him.

 

From this example, people can learn the message that they must not disrespect others. Every one is born with some talent. It is just a matter to realize in this world. 

 

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