Digital calmness trafficked to physical aloofness in an unexpected ceremonial meet

I underwent extreme stress experiencing his ignorance as he was polite in digital conversation but he totally avoided me in audience presence. As an extended relative, I did care about him and gave space in my life but his shrewdness at grand gathering bombarded millions of questions in relationships.

 I was annoyed or sometimes became sad because of his strange emotional response in family get-together. In such a situation, my energy and mind bushed. Is it a time to abort the holy relationship? 

In the theoretical psychological stream, such behaviors are noted as a form of emotional gaslighting where a person's private compassion keeps us intact with each other but their public unfriendliness demoralizes and loses trust in him.  The relative who disregarded me in a family ceremony may reveal his real intention of fake bonding. The digital graciousness showed that he wanted to put me in his relative ladder just to exploit me for personal gain. 

Being a relative and I honor my parents to develop such ties, breaking the relation may trigger emotional rage or psychological disgrace among other relatives. The best common root to explore calmness is emotionally departing. Audience factor is dominant in retaining relationships with him. I adopted the policy of keeping distance in order to stay emotionally stable. I will not pay importance when we will meet in the next ceremony, not even show my calmness. Importantly, I will not explore environmental inputs whether he is looking or finding me.  In case of a sudden face to face collision, I have a plan to throw a simple smile or gracious nod to reveal that I am a stranger. Swiftly, I will move to other guests and gossip.  

When relations become bitter, I need not to publicize instead effectively halt the route of empathy that develops strong bonding. My ultimate aim is to live a “cool life" and being immersed in spiritual prayers to bolster cognitive knack and suppress noise that distract me from silence. It may prove to be a healing solution to mental agony triggered by sour relations with people who react in awkward manner in grand festivity.

 Humble words:

Remote warmth may strengthen bonds between relatives. When it is manipulated and poisoned at physical gathering, it may have treacherous repercussions of departing from each other. One such bitter episode of digital intimacy and cold response in ceremonial events surprised me. It is always a cool strategy to leave a rotten relationship and revamp life with beautiful hearts. 

Important note: Above psychological storylines are real happening and the original theme of the writer. Any resemblance is just a coincidence. Writer is not responsible for any dispute.

Thank you for reading. 

 

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