Ignoring parents: Self-generated or outburst of social media

 If teenagers or youths snub their parents, it indicates the complexity in relationships between them. Fast paced digitalization around the globe led younger generations to be confined to their periphery and look for more liberty in life. In the present landscape, parents groom their children in drastically changing social and moral values that have an immense impact on the mental state of children.

As children grow, they extract huge information from various social media sites and crystalize their belief through churning the amassed data. It is well observed in social settings that emotional and physical distance is widening in the relations between parents and their children due clashes in thought process, fading mental state, generation gaps and living styles. The repercussion of such behavioral reactions infuses stress in family relationships. Teens and grownups sometimes develop acidic relations with parents and spoil the affectionate family closeness.

Parents have deep emotional bonding with their children. As they age, they are more emotive and become a guiding figure for the good health and bright career of children. With time, some children toughen their own morals and due to myriads of social, mental pressure, they start ignoring their parents. Many parents also complain that their children have developed hatred feelings towards them. Such bitter experience leaves a deep wound that cannot be healed throughout their life. Parents may feel shocked, upset, annoyed, frightened, and lose their existence in life when children reject them.

Grounds of ignorance by grownups:

Child birth is happiest and holy feeling and develops a sense of responsibility for parents to nurture appropriately so that their kid may be trained to respond in socially accepted manner in later developmental stages of life. If babies are not given proper attention at the beginning, they do not develop a feeling of belongingness and lack attachment skills which are the foundation of building healthy family bonds. At this tender age, children who are not groomed in an affectionate way and are repressed to their needs and preferences, later on, when they gain power, they may start ignoring the parents.

Mother and father both have responsibility to shower their love, and equip their child to learn etiquettes for strong family and interpersonal relationships. 

Tactics to revive the relationship between parents and grownups:

Spoiled relations in family can be easily manipulated by social swindlers to thrash and take advantage. Parents are experienced and know the nerve of their child therefore they need to put great energy to restore the emotional and mental damage that occurred in the family. To regain warmth bonding, parents must be more conversant and it is a good habit to react gently to irate behavior of their child approaching to teen age. Parents must spend good time with their child and calmly comprehend even a simple and minute event occurring with the child. Honoring the choices and requirements of a child creates joyous feelings and brings proximity in relationships. If the child’s request is not genuine, explain grounds of rebuffing the voice of the child to avoid any damages in future bonding. Self-justifying is not a good response to clarify a child on some intricate issue. Defensive behavior may negatively impact on the mental state of children as they may think that they are right and may try to control parents.

If children are arrogant, headstrong or non-responsive, then they need training to respect their parents. Parents must not be totally poignant or dependent on their child in a relationship. Though children have great importance in the life of parents, they should not be considered as adored. Because if grownups overlook the needs and choices of parents, it may lead to disappointment and upsetting feeling that may trigger severe mental aches.

Parents who face ignored responses from their grownup children must realize that they must review the other significant persona in their family and social horizon which may spark happiness. To cope up with a situation which may leave a feeling of distress, it is always a wise step to recap memorable events and people who added color in their life. Stepping up with people having positive thoughts and desire for strong bonding will prove to be a magical shine in the life of parents.

 

Parents who are rebuffed by their own child must convey sorrow to the child. When children realize the blunders they committed in a relationship, they may make efforts to repair the negative feeling.

Even though parents are not touched with their children, they may initiate the conversation and spend some time to resume the healthy bond. Such action will also shield their children as they may deviate from responsibility towards parents. Parents' revived approach will serve as wake up call for them to regain connection with parents who always think for the bright future of their children. Parents who are thrown into the world by their children should not beg for attention. Parents may be hurt with the behavior of their children.  They desperately extend their support, still they need to retain their self-respect to let the children realize their attitude and modify their conduct towards parents. 

Parents suffering from the worst phase of rejection from their children must empower themselves and try to engage in manifold activities such as charity work, travelling to stunning tourist spots, fulfilling hobbies, doing exercises and sometimes organizing exciting events to make life colorful. In a nutshell, parents need to enhance their inner power to live a comfortable life and should never feel that they are defeated or lost when facing rejection from their children.

Final word:

Human life in the present scenario is floating in a new direction in which the meaning of morality and physical living is changed considerably. Grownups have multiple issues in their routine life. Parents who devote their valuable time and energy to their children often expect high in return. There are manifold factors that instigate grownups to ignore their parents. Upsurge of social media sites and peer advises sometimes misguide them and they steal the power of their parents in the form of rejection, dishonoring and expressing rude attitude. Parents must have to recap conducts of children and preserve their respect to get rid of from such toxic relationships. It is always good to put effort into retaining healthy relationships in the family but at the same time, parents are advised to keep up honorable status for mental stability.  Emotional balance is equally significant to convey the message to grownups that they are choosing the wrong track in the life which come back in return in due course of time. 

Important note: Above article is based on writer's logical analysis . Any resemblance is just a coincidence. Writer is not responsible for any disagreement